The “Rhodes Scholar” Thing Isn’t Just a Dumb Gaffe

It’s an example of how narcissists weaponize language

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ince parting ways with my narcissist ex-husband, I’ve been struggling to put into words the peculiarities of how he used language.

Trying to have conversations — okay, fights — with him was excruciatingly frustrating for a number of reasons. First, I never felt…